Sunday, May 31, 2015

Has the American Church become it's own version of reality TV?

It would seem that in the American Church today we have embraced (or maybe we just reflect) the reality TV culture. Normal people are boring in our culture.  To matter to the church it seems like you have to have a past full of rebellion, promiscuity, brushes with Johnny Law, drug use, etc - or - you have to have a background of cultish legalism where you were a "good person" and did "good things", but were enslaved by the rules of men who ruled. So our church has embraced the idea that normal people are boring. If a Christian has had an ordinary life, with ordinary parents, in an ordinary house then you are just plain old normal, and that is boring and the Church doesn't care about normal.

If you are normal your problems aren't big enough, your scars aren't visible enough, your tattoos aren't dangerous enough, your baggage isn't heavy enough, your pain isn't strong enough, your mind isn't messy enough, your spirit isn't broken enough, your actions aren't heroic enough, your wounds aren't deep enough, your position isn't important enough, your fame isn't promotable enough, your bank account is not full enoguh, your talent isn't amazing enough, your words aren't eloquent enough, your face is not photogenic enough, your victory isn't victorious enough, your tragedy isn't tragic enough, your freedom isn't liberating enough, your glory isn't glorious enough, your life isn't interesting enough, and neither is your death. Thousands of normal people will pass into and out of the church's doors this week and no one will notice them. Some will never return, and no one will care.   

Sunday, November 9, 2014

The can and the will of God

So I recently was involved in a discussion which centered around churches and their poor decisions which lead to bad circumstances and embarrassing situations. The situations which make the church and the people of the church look bad in the eyes of the very community they are trying to reach. Looking “bad” might be a generous term. Looking like idiots, megalomaniacs, fools, money grubbing charlatans, or just plain old jerks might be more accurate, but you get the point. 
In these situations and out of these circumstances there is always an overflow of pain and hurt, a sense of betrayal, a loss of family and friendship, a sense of aloneness. Churches are made of of people, people make bad choices, which lead to bad situations, and people get hurt when these things happen. 
But, I had this thought - can God redeem these circumstances? Can God take all of this mess and pain and hurt and make something good out of it? Can God take my bad choices and the bad choices others make and bring good from the bad? 
I have to believe the answer is yes. Not a simplistic yes, but an absolute, like the Law of Gravity yes. God absolutely can redeem the evil that people work. He can redeem the pain and the hurt. He can take it and bring wonderful good out of it. Because if He cannot, then I am doomed in my worship of a weak god who can be conquered by the will of mere mortal men.  
Therefore, since I believe He can, it becomes a matter of the will of God - will He redeem these circumstances? I will be honest and say that this is where I struggle the most these days. I have come to this place - I must believe God will redeem all of this mess, all of the bad choices, all of the pain, all of the doubt, all of the fears, all of the hurt, all of the bitterness, all of shame - He will make good from it somehow. Because if He will not - then I am truly without hope. And when we lose hope, we perish. So I will believe, and hope, and live. 

Friday, October 24, 2014

Everything Changes...

I put this together for Orphan Sunday a year after we got back from our adoption journey in Kazakhstan. It was hard to make, and is hard to watch, even today. Evidently time doesn't heal all wounds. David Platt is right "Orphans are easier to ignore before you know their names, but once you do, everything changes".